Finally. Yes, I've been exasperated. Today is husband's birthday. His sister phoned and they had a nice, amicable chat. Since 2014 there'd been ongoing friction/resentment between them. I stayed out of it. Had a hunch as to WHY, but didn't inquire. Because he did try and make amends over the years, I began blaming her for continuing it. Both are long-time Christians. You know? Honestly, I began not caring if they did settle it, and tossed the matter into File 13. I hope today's goodwill is permanent. Frankly, it should be.